Pink and White Roses
My father and I were having a conversation yesterday about Mother’s Day and possible restaurants we might take mine to dinner. One of the things we decided was to purchase two dozen pink roses. At first, he said he wanted to get red. Red, to me, always seems to show up at funerals and since [...]
First Christmas Without Your Loved One
After the death of someone close, no one holiday is more difficult to endure than Christmas. Everyone around us is in the holiday spirit, buying gifts, decorating trees, baking cookies, arranging tables for dinner, cooking delicacies and family-guarded secret recipes. And while you may be participating in body, your soul just isn’t into it this [...]
The Dreaded Invitation
Peter from the UK writes, “My boss has invited us to a Christmas dinner party at his home. My wife and I recently lost another pregnancy and are not up for this. How can we not go? This is my boss. What do I do?” Dear Peter, While you might feel as though you have [...]
Memories at Holidays
As I work through my “to do” list this Christmas season, I find myself thinking about all the people who have left my life. Some have died and some are still living. Those who have died take an added measure of thought. I decorate with ornaments and beautiful trinkets that they won’t enjoy admiring with [...]
A Thanksgiving to Remember
After the death of a loved one, the first Thanksgiving can feel unsettling at best. “Exactly what could I be thankful for?” might be the line playing in your head. You shouldn’t feel badly for having these feelings as many folks who are grieving at holiday season usually silently say this to themselves, even if [...]
